Missing A Brother-In-Law
My family here consists of my husband, step-daughter and myself. My Mom and Dad also live near us, as does my oldest sister. Mom and sister are the only ones here vaccinated. My Mom and Dad are in their 80’s and going strong! Husband is in his 70’s. You can predict the other ages. With the exception of my sister, none of here have gotten sick.
The genetic experiment, otherwise known as the vaccine, cost us one brother-in-law and one sister-in-law so far.
At Christmastime, we considered a trip north for a traditional family gathering hosted by my brother. So my husband called his brother and asked if he’d like us to swing by New York (upstate) for a visit. Knowing that we are not vaccinated, the response was immediate and reprehensible.
It went something like this (bold is yelling):
Husband: We could just stop by for a visit on our way back home.
BIL: You’re not coming into our house if you’re not vaccinated!
Husband: Well we could go out to dinner or lunch.
BIL: Not a chance!
Husband: We’d meet you outside someplace - like a park and just catch up.
BIL: You’re not going to make us sick!
Husband: What if I showed up in your yard and just yelled hello at you?
… and this spiraled into where we are today: probably never going to see them again. :-(
The original trip north didn’t happen anyway because my jabbed brother (and his jabbed wife and their jabbed three teen-aged boys) canceled the party. One of the boys conveniently got ‘covid’. He passed it to the rest of the family. A few days of homecare and all are fine.
I’ll end by saying that my husband has accepted that he will never seen his older brother again in this world. It makes me incredibly sad, but what can be done to change their minds?
I’d love to gather your stories of loss because of your ‘vaccine’ stance. Please leave comments below and let’s discuss how best to share them with the rest of the world.
Hi Robin…it is interesting that I would read your heart touching, but extremely frustrating, post this morning. I am finding that I experience more and more synchronicities these days…
I have two very close sisters. One of them is 100% on our side of this issue, the other is 100% on the sheep side. Needless to say at first there was a lot of attempts to convince the sheep sister to see the truth, and she just wouldn’t budge. She and her husband (a retired scientist) are vaxxed to the max. She is a hard core liberal as well which I only mention because she has dumped all of the stuff criticizing the vaccine, the lockdowns, the restrictions, etc. into the Trump bucket. Just the other day I sent her a Neil Oliver video, which I actually thought she would resonate with (his one about getting closer to nature, farmers plight, etc.) and she wouldn’t even listen to it because she “knows who Neil Oliver is” (assuming that means she read somewhere he was right wing.)
The reason reading your post is synchronistic to me is that I just had my last altercation with her last night and I am very sad about it. I know that I still love my sister and would move any mountain for her if she needed me to, but I now no longer trust her. She is lost. I will never speak to her again about anything other than cats, the garden and squirrels.
I find this splitting of families to be the greatest damage caused by this insanity. It is like we are literally dealing with zombies now…and I imagine it is similar to what a handful of Germans went through during the Nazi era. This utter blindness and departure from anything that does not fall 100% in line with the narrative they have chosen to be loyal to is astonishing. It truly is like dealing with a cult member.